Stuff I think about
You're NOT a crappy mom. I'm sure she knows you love her and I'm sure she won't be scarred for life ;)And it was good seeing you today. Sorry, you guys couldn't come over....maybe next time, huh?
I'll wait for the rest of the story on this, but one of the things that popped into my head was possible hormones. We'll talk more.
What popped into my head, was don't give adult type emotional weight to what may be a fleeting or hard to explain thought of a kid's, that may have not had the kind of weight it sounded like.